July 08

I wonder what you are supposed to say when someone tells you about horrible things going on in thier life. I wonder how you make them feel less shitty. I want to know how to display perspective in a conversation, so that when people leave me, they know that
everything will be alright.
Because I feel people, and I hate it when they hurt.
And I hate even more that I never, ever have anything to offer.

I don't even know how to make myself feel better.
I realize that there is a time for everything, and that everything comes in season,
and this season seems to be the one of
everything sort of falling apart in front of our eyes.

If I can't do it for myself,
I can't do it for others. When it comes to advice , the best thing I got for people living through harsh and bleak circumstances is to watch an episode of the Gilmore Girls. That's what I do. But I suppose it is different for everyone. For those who need to talk, I want to listen. For those who need to curse, I want to offer them some new swear words. For those who need to eat, I want to cook for them. For those who just need to be alone, I want to never bother them.

Because, hell, we need each other.